Dynamics
(Carnality vs Spirituality)
(Carnality vs Spirituality)
4 Phases based on Carnality vs. Spirituality
1. Discover — “Faith Begins With Hearing”
In this phase a person is learning, listening, and exploring the truth of God’s Word. Their heart is opening but not yet fully surrendered. This is the stage of spiritual curiosity, questions, and early conviction.
“So then faith comes by hearing, and hearing by the word of Christ.” — Romans 10:17
Key Idea: Exposure to God’s truth awakens faith.
2. Embrace — “Receive the Word Into Your Heart”
Here, the person is no longer just listening—they begin to accept Scripture as true and personally meaningful. Their faith becomes personal, and they start trusting God’s promises. They are moving from information to transformation.
“Receive with meekness the implanted word, which is able to save your souls.” — James 1:21
Key Idea: God’s Word is planted inside and begins changing the heart.
3. Practice — “Do What the Word Says”
This is where real spiritual maturity forms. Instead of only believing the Word, the believer now lives it out in daily life—choices, habits, character, relationships. They become doers of the Word, not hearers only.
“Be doers of the word, and not hearers only.” — James 1:22
Key Idea: Faith expresses itself through obedience and consistent action.
4. Surrender — “A Life Fully Yielded to God”
This is the highest level of spiritual maturity. The believer gives every area of life—desires, decisions, schedule, ambitions—fully to God. They do not resist His will but follow joyfully. This is where transformation becomes visible to others.
“Present your bodies as a living sacrifice… be transformed by the renewing of your mind.” — Romans 12:1–2
Key Idea: Surrender produces Spirit-led living and maximum spiritual fruit.
Relationship Dynamics Based on Carnality vs. Spirituality
The apostle Paul openly confessed that he experienced a deep inner battle between his carnal nature (flesh) and his spiritual nature. Though saved, Spirit-filled, and called by God, Paul still felt the pull of sinful tendencies. This reveals a universal Christian truth: spiritual maturity does not eliminate the struggle—it transforms how we fight it.
1. Paul Recognized the War Inside Him
Paul describes an internal conflict between two forces:
The flesh (carnality) pulling him toward sin
The Spirit drawing him toward obedience
Romans 7:15
“For what I am doing, I do not understand. For what I will to do, that I do not practice; but what I hate, that I do.”
Paul is saying: “There are moments I want to serve God, but my flesh works against me.”
2. He Admitted That His Flesh Was Constantly Tempting Him
Paul speaks honestly about the presence of sin still at work within him:
Romans 7:18
“For I know that in me (that is, in my flesh) nothing good dwells; for to will is present with me, but how to perform what is good I do not find.”
This is the stage where carnality still tries to dominate—but spiritual desire is also rising.
3. He Identified the Root Problem: The Sin Nature
Paul explains that even though he desires righteousness, a law of sin tries to pull him back.
Romans 7:23
“But I see another law in my members, warring against the law of my mind… bringing me into captivity to the law of sin.”
This is not an excuse—it's awareness, which is the beginning of victory.
4. Paul Felt the Weight of the Struggle
His battle led him to cry out for rescue from this internal conflict:
Romans 7:24
“O wretched man that I am! Who will deliver me from this body of death?”
He recognized: “I cannot win against my flesh by my own strength.”
5. Paul Found Victory Through Christ and the Spirit
Paul immediately declares the solution: Jesus Christ and life empowered by the Holy Spirit.
Romans 7:25
“Thanks be to God, through Jesus Christ our Lord!”
And then he goes further:
Romans 8:1–2
“There is therefore now no condemnation to those who are in Christ Jesus… For the law of the Spirit of life in Christ Jesus has made me free from the law of sin and death.”
This means: Carnality loses its power when the Holy Spirit takes leadership in the believer’s life.
6. Paul Taught How to Move From Carnality to Spirituality
Paul explains that walking in the Spirit is the only way to stop fulfilling the desires of the flesh.
Galatians 5:16
“Walk in the Spirit, and you shall not fulfill the lust of the flesh.”
Paul does not claim perfection—he models progress, surrender, and dependence on Christ.
7. Why Paul’s Struggle Encourages Us Today
Paul's honesty shows:
Even the strongest believers struggle
The struggle is not a sign of failure but of spiritual life
Victory is possible only through the Holy Spirit
Spiritual maturity grows through surrender, not self-effort
His life mirrors our journey from Discover → Embrace → Practice → Surrender.
Discover
Discover (Highest Carnality • Lowest Spirituality)
Couple Example: Adam & Eve (Genesis 2–3)
Why They Fit This Stage:
They were at the beginning of learning God’s Word.
Their limited understanding made them vulnerable to deception.
Carnality (desire, appetite, self-will) dominated their decision.
Biblical Evidence:
Eve listened to the serpent and acted by sight, not by spiritual wisdom (Gen. 3:6).
Adam followed Eve instead of God (Gen. 3:17).
Relationship Dynamics:
Low discernment: Both accepted false teaching easily.
Unstable unity: Unity was present but based on emotions, not obedience.
Fear & blame grew: After sin, they hid from God and blamed one another (Gen. 3:12–13).
Spiritual Lesson:
“My people are destroyed for lack of knowledge.” — Hosea 4:6
Carnality thrives where God’s Word is not understood or practiced.
Embrace
Embrace (Struggle Between Carnality & Spirituality)
Couple Example: Abraham & Sarah (Genesis 16–18)
Why They Fit This Stage:
They believed God, but their faith wavered.
Spiritual desire existed, but carnality (fear, impatience, human solutions) interfered.
Biblical Evidence:
They believed God’s promise (Gen. 15:6).
Yet they tried to “help God” through Hagar, showing the struggle between faith & flesh (Gen. 16:2).
Relationship Dynamics:
Shared faith, shared uncertainty: They were learning to trust God.
Carnal decisions caused conflict: Hagar’s situation brought jealousy and pain (Gen. 16:4–6).
God reaffirms His promise: Their faith is strengthened through correction (Gen. 17–18).
Spiritual Lesson:
“The spirit indeed is willing, but the flesh is weak.” — Matthew 26:41
They believed, but the battle between spiritual trust and human reasoning was real.
Practice
Practice (Reduced Carnality • Growing Spirituality)
Couple Example: Priscilla & Aquila (Acts 18; Romans 16)
Why They Fit This Stage:
They lived out their faith daily.
They taught others, served sacrificially, and practiced obedience consistently.
Biblical Evidence:
They partnered in ministry with Paul (Acts 18:2–3).
They explained Scripture more accurately to Apollos (Acts 18:26).
They hosted a church in their home (Romans 16:3–5).
Relationship Dynamics:
Spiritual teamwork: They practiced God’s Word together.
Balanced maturity: They encouraged and corrected others in love.
Unified obedience: Both were fully engaged in ministry.
Spiritual Lesson:
“But be doers of the word, and not hearers only.” — James 1:22
Their life demonstrated the harmony of a couple practicing the Word daily.
Surrender
Surrender (Low Carnality • Highest Spirituality)
Couple Example: Joseph & Mary (Luke 1–2)
Why They Fit This Stage:
Both displayed total surrender to God’s will.
They obeyed at great personal and social cost.
Their unity was Spirit-led and purpose-focused.
Biblical Evidence:
Mary said, “Be it unto me according to Your word” (Luke 1:38).
Joseph obeyed God’s instructions without hesitation (Matt. 1:20–24).
They fled to Egypt in obedience to protect Jesus (Matt. 2:13–15).
Relationship Dynamics:
Spirit-led unity: Both submitted to God even when misunderstood by others.
Low carnality: Decisions were not based on fear, reputation, or comfort.
High spiritual purpose: Their relationship accomplished God’s redemptive plan.
Spiritual Lesson:
“Walk by the Spirit, and you will not fulfill the lust of the flesh.” — Galatians 5:16
They show what a surrendered, God-centered marriage looks like.
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